Hello, I’m Iuliana.
I’m a general surgeon, a mother of two, and the person behind Happy Tiny Chaos.
Before becoming a mother, I had already spent years studying the human body, learning about infant development and working in a hospital. I thought I understood quite a lot about babies and the early stages of life.
Motherhood had other plans.
The trenches of those first years have been a humbling experience. They taught me that knowing the medical facts and living through the reality are two very different things. You can understand the biology of a newborn’s sleep, crying or feeding and still find yourself wondering what on earth is happening at three in the morning.
And that’s okay.
What motherhood taught me
After four years of motherhood, I’ve gained a different kind of knowledge: the ability to recognise the difference between evidence and popular myths, to look for reliable medical sources, and to approach the uncertainties of early parenthood without immediately assuming the worst.
But motherhood has taught me far more than that.
I’ve learned that tiredness doesn’t always tell you what you’re capable of. That resilience isn’t something you build once and keep forever — it’s built, lost and rebuilt in the small moments of everyday life. And that becoming a mother can change you in ways you could never have anticipated.
I don’t think I’ve simply returned to the person I was before children. I’ve grown into someone different, and in many ways, stronger than I ever imagined.
Why I created Happy Tiny Chaos
I created this space for mothers who are trying to make sense of a new and sometimes overwhelming chapter of life.
Here, I bring together two perspectives: my medical background and my lived experience of motherhood.
You’ll find evidence-informed articles about newborn sleep, crying, feeding, early development and postpartum recovery. My aim is to explain the biology behind what babies do, help separate established medical knowledge from common misconceptions, and make reliable information easier to navigate.
Not every difficult moment is a medical problem. Not every popular piece of advice is supported by evidence. And not every baby follows the same pattern.
I want to help mothers understand what may be happening, feel more confident in their decisions and spend less time worrying that they’re doing everything wrong.
What you can expect here
- Medical context, without unnecessary complexity. Clear explanations of the biology behind newborn behaviour and postpartum changes.
- Evidence over myths. Information grounded in medical sources, rather than trends or rigid parenting rules.
- Realistic motherhood. An understanding that life with young children is rarely tidy, predictable or quiet.
- Less pressure, more understanding. Practical guidance that respects the fact that every baby and family is different.
My medical background shapes how I research and explain health topics. My experience as a mother reminds me that behind every question is a real person trying to do their best.
I’m not here to tell you how to be a perfect mother. I’m here to help you understand this new version of life, find your footing and grow alongside your baby.
Welcome to Happy Tiny Chaos.
If You’re New Here
Start with:
- Newborn Sleep Cues Every Parent Should Know
- Signs Your Newborn Is Overtired (And How to Help)
- Why Newborns Cry When Put Down
- Newborn Crying After Feeding: Is It Normal and What It Means
- Week-by-Week Postpartum Recovery Timeline
This blog is growing slowly and intentionally — just like babies do.
If you’re here, you’re probably tired.
Or questioning yourself.
Or searching for reassurance.
Also, you’re not sure what’s normal in the first 6 weeks after birth?
Download the free “Postpartum: Is This Normal?” Quick Check Guide
A calm reference for Weeks 0–6 — so you don’t have to second-guess every sensation.
You’re not alone.
And most of the time?
It’s just a phase — whether it becomes clearer… or they simply outgrow it.
If you’re in the thick of newborn life and need grounded, realistic guidance, start here.
More practical resources are being built quietly behind the scenes.
If you’re just getting started, explore the three guides that form the foundation of Happy Tiny Chaos:
• Understanding Newborn Crying
Last updated: November 2026
Note: The information shared on this page is based on personal experience and research and is intended for educational purposes only. It should not replace medical advice. If you have concerns about your baby’s health or your own recovery, please consult a qualified healthcare professional.